Tuesday, 19 February 2013

cara cara perempuan luahkan perasaan pada lelaki

assalamualaikum w.b.t

malam ni sha excited sungguh, tak smpai 60minit, sha dah update lagi satu entry. well im very excited right now. hahahaha..baru dengar berita gembira from my sister, hope your good news ni will be long lasting and forever k. dont be like me :)

so girls, antara cara2 nak luahkan perasaan dengan gaya yang malu ala ala sopan gitu adalah hantar text dekat guys yg korang minat dengan ayat begini

1-saya sebenarnya segan nak cakap yang saya sebenarnya sudi nak jadi GF awak. 
2. saya sebenarnya segan nak cakap lelaki yang saya suka tu adalah awk :)

tamat. hehehe, for now, ni je cara2 yang sha tahu .. tapi sha rasa utk kesan yang lebih mendalam. kita boleh tukarkan ayat2 di atas menjadi seperti berikut.

1- saya sebenarnya segan nak beritahu, saya sudi jadi isteri awk
2- saya sebenarnya segan nak beritahu, lelaki yang sy impikan jadi ADAM yang bakal pimpin dunia akhirat sy itu adalah awk..

so how ? so sweet. kan. so dont forget to try ok girl. :D


Thursday, 14 February 2013

5 Ultimate Tips For Longtime Lovers


Call me a rare species, but I am a romantic at heart and I am proud of it. Growing up, I have a list with specific traits of how a great relationship should be – how it should look like from the outside, how it should feel on the inside. Experiences and people have reshaped the said list over the years, but one trait remains: a good relationship should make you fall for your other half every single day.

It means butterflies in the stomach. It means waking up with a smile knowing you are with the person you want to be with. It means looking forward to the end of work because you know you will see him after. Being in a 3-year-old relationship, some days those magical feelings come without any effort, but there are days when it is more flat than fluffy.

Finishing each other's sentences used to be the highlight of our days but really – after a while it only makes us roll eyes because both of us are reacting the same way to the same things day by day. When it's more of a routine and not a privilege to see the other half – there only are two choices: to succumb in the comfort and risk falling out of love, or rekindle the fire to feel loved and fulfilled once again.

The wise man says the beginning and the end do not matter, but in between them; we live. Here, is the lists 5 tips for longtime lovers to keep the electricity alive and in time, build the coveted wine-like relationship.


1. Let each other finish own sentences

There is a difference between understanding and assuming that we know our other half better than anyone else, including himself. It is really easy to form the continuation to his stories in your head and say it out loud – without remembering that things change and stories do not always end the same way. If you know what he's going to say every single time – wouldn't it be the same as being in a relationship with yourself? Why would you need him in the very first place? Re-learn the art of listening – listen more than you talk, and you will cherish each other's presence more.


2. Go on secret dates

Many longtime couples, especially those who live together, spend a lot of time together but do not go on dates anymore. Remember when we were the carefree, hormonal teenager, dates are the highlights of our lives? Dates are thrilling – the fun of  choosing what to wear, where to go, and what to do create a sense of excitement that we don't get anymore once we choose to spend more quality time at home and only go out for the sake of going out. Arrange a surprise date for each other, meet him somewhere and do things that you don't usually do. Have fun, be teenagers once more and you will come home happier (and gigglier).


3. Spend some time apart

Cliché has it that long distance relationships don't work, but for those which does, it is because distance has its plus sides besides the usual 'what if one of us meets someone new' issue. Having the chance to miss our other half help us to remember why we choose to build a relationship with him in the very first place. Plus, there would be exciting new stories to swap once you are reunited. To create some space, you don't need to take up job offers overseas or the likes. Going on a girls-only holiday trip, taking up a new activity or starting up a small business would do. You would have a world that is solely yours – where he is only a spectator and not an actor.

4. Say the magic words

No, it is not the 8-lettered 'I love you', but the simple 'please' and 'thank you'. A friend once commented on how my partner and I still thank each other for the simplest of things; she believes such gesture only shows that we have not reached the top level of intimacy. In other words, we are not that close just yet. However, I believe those words show that you appreciate your partner and the things he does – including his willingness to get out of bed to turn off the lights when none of you really want to do the chore.


5. Talk it all out

Discuss your feelings, the wild dreams you have, even the stagnant point that you two are stuck in and make being with a stranger sound like a good idea. In other words, do not sweep anything under the rug. Being in a longtime relationship, you should be able to tell your partner where exactly you like to be touched and if your old flame texted you earlier in the day. Talking about sensitive matters with your partner should not be about hurting each other's feelings, but to get that reminder that someone is there for you, even in the ugliest of times. If you do not have that liberty to do so – it really is about time you evaluate your relationship – are you two really compatible for each other, or do you only stay together out of comfort?

#must be use able for me :D